Main Character Energy: Stepping Into MY Season

Lately, I’ve been on a journey of self-reflection — really sitting with who I am, what I want, and where my peace truly lives. After taking a step back from dating (check out my previous post on that), I’ve had more space to focus on something I had unintentionally been neglecting: me.

There’s this phrase that’s been circulating lately — “Main Character Energy.” And honestly, it’s more than just a trend or a catchy phrase. It’s a reminder. A declaration. A mindset.

Main Character Energy is about recognizing that you are the most important person in your life’s story. Everything — the setting, the plot twists, the growth arcs — revolves around you. Your joy. Your peace. Your purpose.

So, let me ask you:Are you the main character in your story?Are you taking time to pour back into yourself — not just physically, but emotionally, mentally, spiritually?

Because I can finally say — with no guilt and no hesitation — yes, I am.

I’m in my Main Character Season. And in this season, I’m prioritizing self-awareness, healing, and intentional growth. I’m taking the time to evaluate my habits, my character, my passions, and my boundaries. I’m asking the tough questions:

• What lights me up?

• What drains me?

• Who am I when no one’s watching?

• What have I outgrown, and what am I growing into?

The answers aren’t always easy — and sometimes they hurt. But they’re honest. And that’s where real peace begins: in truth.

One of the hardest things to do is step away from the noise — the expectations, the distractions, the timelines set by other people — and look inward. To rediscover who you are when you’re not performing. Not pleasing. Not proving anything.

But that step back? It’s sacred. It’s powerful. And it’s necessary.

So if you’re in a place where you feel lost, drained, or disconnected, I encourage you to take a breath. Step back. Listen closely to yourself. Your story is waiting for you to show up.

Take the pen.Grab the paper.And make your story magical.

This is your Main Character Season.You got this, sis.

—#AshleySpeak 💫